- Originally Published on June 14, 2024
Instagram Blackmail: What to Do If You’re Being Threatened
You freeze in panic as you read the Instagram message: “Pay me $1000 or I’ll send your naked photos to everyone you know.” Your heart races as you realize you’re being blackmailed. What do you do?
First, take a deep breath. You’re the victim of a crime and this is not your fault. Over 1 in 10 young people have been threatened online. You’re not alone and there is hope.
At Minc Law, we specialize in helping people like you fight back against Instagram blackmail. We’ve put together this step-by-step guide to walk you through exactly what to do to stop the threats, protect your privacy, and get support. Here’s what you need to know.
How to Respond to Instagram Blackmail
If you’re being blackmailed on Instagram, do not pay or engage with the scammer further. Immediately take these steps:
- Screenshot all messages as evidence,
- Report the user to Instagram,
- Tighten privacy settings on all accounts,
- Consider reporting to police,
- Lean on loved ones for support, and
- Contact an attorney for legal support.
What is Instagram Blackmail?
Instagram blackmail, also known as sextortion, is a crime where scammers threaten to share your private photos, videos, or information unless you pay them money.
Blackmailers typically target young Instagram users by posing as attractive strangers, building trust, and then convincing victims to send explicit content. Once they have compromising material, they threaten to post it publicly or send it to your followers if you don’t comply with their demands.
These cruel scams prey on people’s fears and cause immense emotional distress. But it’s critical to remember that you’re not at fault.
The blame lies solely with the criminal trying to extort you. No matter what you’ve shared, you don’t deserve to be threatened and harassed.
What Should You Do Immediately If You’re Being Blackmailed on Instagram?
Discovering you’re a victim of blackmail on Instagram is frightening, but you can take back control by acting quickly and strategically. Here’s a step-by-step plan:
Do Not Pay or Engage With the Blackmailer
While it’s tempting to comply with demands to make the threat go away, paying a blackmailer will only show them that you’re vulnerable and lead to more harassment. Cut off all contact immediately. Don’t respond to any messages, send more content, or try to reason with them.
Screenshot All Messages as Evidence
Before you block the blackmailer, take screenshots of your entire conversation, including their threats and any photos/videos they claim to have. Make sure to capture their username and profile. This evidence is crucial for reporting the crime and bringing the scammer to justice.
Report the User to Instagram
Instagram strictly prohibits blackmail and has a process for reporting abuse. To report a blackmailer:
- Go to their profile and tap the three dots in the top right corner
- Select “Report” and follow the on-screen instructions
- Choose the option for “It’s inappropriate” and then “Report account”
- Provide as much detail as possible about the extortion
Instagram will investigate the account and ban users who violate their policies against harassment. However, it’s still important to preserve evidence and explore other reporting options.
Consider Reporting to the Police
Instagram blackmail is a serious crime. While many victims are afraid to go to authorities, reporting to the police creates an official record and can help stop the perpetrator from hurting others. You can file a report with your local police department or contact the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) to start an investigation.
Tighten Privacy Settings on All Accounts
Go through your Instagram privacy settings and make sure your account is as secure as possible. Set your profile to private so only approved followers can view your posts. Hide your Story from everyone except Close Friends. Disable the ability for others to reshare your posts. Remove any private info like your phone number or email address from your bio.
It’s also wise to audit your friend list and remove any followers you don’t know and trust. Blackmailers often pose as friendly strangers to collect information and find new targets. By carefully curating who has access to your profile, you lower your risk.
Lean on Loved Ones for Support
Being blackmailed is emotionally traumatic, and you shouldn’t suffer alone. Talk to a friend, family member, or trusted adult about what you’re going through. Hiding the truth often makes things worse. You need and deserve compassion, reassurance, and help to navigate this difficult situation.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, or thoughts of self-harm, contact a crisis helpline to talk with a trained counselor. You can also join online support groups for blackmail and sextortion victims to connect with others who understand what you’re feeling.
Contact an Internet Law Firm Like Minc Law for Legal Support
At Minc Law, we have extensive experience helping people just like you stop online blackmail and get justice. We know how overwhelmed and scared you feel and we’re here to guide you forward with sensitivity, discretion, and skilled legal advocacy.
Our firm can help you:
- Collect and preserve evidence correctly
- Report the crime to the proper authorities
- Remove any published content from the internet
- Investigate the perpetrator and build a strong case
- Pursue criminal charges and fight for your rights
- Secure monetary compensation for your suffering
- Coordinate a reputation management strategy
You don’t have to go through this nightmare alone. We invite you to schedule a confidential consultation with a Minc Law attorney to share your story and explore your options. We’ll create a personalized action plan to swiftly shut down the harassment and safeguard your future.
How Can You Prevent Blackmail on Instagram?
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure when it comes to Instagram blackmail. While scammers are ultimately to blame, there are smart steps you can take to protect yourself from becoming a target:
- Never send explicit photos or videos to anyone, even romantic partners
- Be wary of anyone who rushes into sexting or asks you to keep a relationship secret
- Do a reverse image search on profile photos of new followers to check for catfishing
- Keep your Instagram account private and only accept people you know
- Disable settings that reveal your activity status and location
- Don’t put your contact info or school/work details in your public bio
- Be mindful of what identifiable info is visible in your posts and story
- Log out of Instagram on shared devices and use two-factor authentication
Remember, Instagram is a highlight reel, not real life. Scammers exploit the pressure to present a perfect online image. But your privacy, safety, and dignity are always what matter most. Trust your gut if someone seems shady and never let anyone shame you into silence.
What Are Your Legal Rights If You’re a Victim of Instagram Blackmail?
As a victim of Instagram blackmail, you have clear legal rights and protections. Blackmail and extortion are illegal under state and federal law. 18 U.S.C. § 873 makes it a felony to demand or receive money or other valuables in return for not informing against someone or exposing their secrets. Penalties include fines and up to one year in prison.
Many states, including California and New York, have also passed specific laws criminalizing cyber exploitation and nonconsensual pornography. For example, California Penal Code Section 647(j)(4) makes it a crime to intentionally distribute nude or sexual images of another identifiable person when the perpetrator intends to cause emotional distress. Punishments range from six months in jail to fines up to $1,000.
In addition to criminal charges, victims of Instagram blackmail may have grounds for a civil lawsuit against their perpetrator. Depending on the details of your case, you may be able to sue for:
- Invasion of privacy
- Intentional infliction of emotional distress
- Defamation (if false info was published)
- Fraudulent misrepresentation
- Breach of confidentiality
- Public disclosure of private facts
A successful civil claim can provide monetary damages to compensate you for the harm you’ve suffered, including psychological anguish, reputation damage, and any financial losses. You may also be able to get a restraining order to prevent further contact from the blackmailer.
It’s important to consult with an experienced internet attorney who understands the complex legal landscape around online harassment. They can advise you on the best path forward and advocate fiercely for your rights in criminal and civil court. Don’t let shame or fear keep you from seeking the justice you deserve.
How to Cope with the Emotional Impact of Instagram Blackmail
Being blackmailed on Instagram is a deeply violating and frightening ordeal. You may feel a range of intense emotions, including fear, anger, shock, despair, and self-blame. These reactions are all valid and understandable. Processing trauma takes time and there’s no one “right” way to heal.
As you work through this difficult experience, prioritize self-care and be patient with yourself. It’s normal to have good days and bad days. Lean on your support system and consider working with a therapist who specializes in trauma. Talking about what happened, instead of bottling it up inside, can provide immense relief.
At every stage of your recovery, remember that the shame and guilt belong to the perpetrator, not you. You’re not stupid or reckless for trusting the wrong person. The scammer is the only one who chose to commit a crime. Hold onto your truth and don’t let their cruelty dim your light.
In the aftermath of Instagram blackmail, you get to define your story. You can use your pain to find authentic confidence, build healthy boundaries, and connect with others. You’re stronger than you feel and you will get through this. Channel your courage and never let anyone strip you of your power again.
You’re Not Alone in Fighting Instagram Blackmail
At Minc Law, we’ve built a national reputation as the top law firm for victims of online harassment, blackmail, and cybercrime. We understand the devastation of Instagram sextortion and we’re here to help you take back control with aggressive advocacy.
Our experienced team of attorneys, cyber investigators, and reputation management experts will guide you through every step of the process with sensitivity and skill. We can help you:
- Gather and preserve crucial evidence
- Identify anonymous blackmailers
- Remove explicit content from websites
- Report crimes to law enforcement
- Secure restraining orders for your safety
- Monitor the internet for any reputational threats
- Coordinate a crisis communication strategy
We treat every client with the utmost discretion, respect, and compassion. We know you’re going through one of the worst times of your life and we’re by your side to protect your privacy and fight for your justice.
Take the first step towards hope and schedule a confidential consultation today. There’s no judgment and no pressure – only expert legal guidance focused on your healing. Together, we’ll develop an action plan perfectly tailored to your unique needs so you can move forward with confidence. You don’t have to go through this alone.
To schedule your consultation, call us at (216) 373-7706, speak with a chat representative, or fill out our online contact form.
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